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Assume nothing : a story of intimate violence / Tanya Selvaratnam.

Selvaratnam, Tanya, (author.).

Summary:

An award-winning filmmaker recounts the intimate abuse she suffered from former New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman, using her story as a prism to examine the domestic violence crisis plaguing America.
When Tanya Selvaratnam met then New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman at the Democratic National Convention in July 2016, they seemed like the perfect match. Behind closed doors, however, Schneiderman became controlling, mean, and manipulative. He drank heavily and used sedatives. Sex turned violent, and he called Tanya-- who was born in Sri Lanka and grew up in Southern California-- his 'brown slave'. Tanya knew the signs of domestic violence, and had not seen herself as vulnerable, but became trapped in a violent relationship with one of the most powerful men in New York. Here she describes how she found the strength to leave-- and how she reclaimed her freedom and her voice. -- adapted from jacket

Record details

  • ISBN: 9780063059900
  • ISBN: 0063059908
  • Physical Description: xviii, 250 pages ; 24 cm
  • Edition: First edition.
  • Publisher: New York, NY : Harper, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, [2021]

Content descriptions

Bibliography, etc. Note:
Includes bibliographical references (pages 231-250)
Formatted Contents Note:
The fairy tale -- Entrap -- Isolate -- Control -- Demean -- Abuse -- The nightmare -- What is intimate violence? -- Extraction -- The pattern -- Coming forward -- The roller coaster -- The fallout -- The lesson -- Moving forward -- Coda (six months later) -- Epilogue.
Subject: Selvaratnam, Tanya.
Schneiderman, Eric T., 1954-
Abused women > United States > Biography.
Intimate partner violence > United States.
Abusive men > United States.

Available copies

  • 2 of 3 copies available at Kenton County.

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  • 0 current holds with 3 total copies.
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Location Call Number / Copy Notes Barcode Shelving Location Status Due Date
Covington Branch 362.8292 S469a 2021 (Text) 33126024092243 Adult Nonfiction Available -
Erlanger Branch 362.8292 S469a 2021 (Text) 33126024092383 Adult Nonfiction Checked out 05/05/2024
Independence Branch 362.8292 S469a 2021 (Text) 33126024092185 Adult Nonfiction Available -

  • Library Journal Reviews : LJ Reviews 2021 February

    With its epigraph from Terry Tempest Williams's When Women Were Birds and chapter titles that invoke the fairy tale tropes her story dismantles, Assume Nothing is raw, gut-wrenching, and honest in its exposure of how—and why—women find themelves trapped in the stories that comprised their childhoods, with particular attention to the shame that comes from believing that they should have known better. Selvaratnam has written this for other women, in an effort to amplify the voices of people who lack the visibility she gained in the aftermath of going public about experiencing abuse by former New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman. She writes with tremendous personal vulnerability, yet never loses sight of the broader policies and data surrounding domestic violence, which lends her work strength as a memoir and as a polemic. By taking Schneiderman's own language and using it as a framework for exploring the complexity of domestic violence, Selvaratnam has successfully undermined the damaging rhetoric designed to prevent women from recognizing themselves as experiencing abuse, especially in situations where there is an imbalance of power. VERDICT A searing, yet sensitive account of vulnerability and redemption that will find a wide audience.—Emily Bowles, Lawrence Univ., WI

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